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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like he wants the best of both worlds.

He wants to behave like an unmarried man, meaning have his freedom to drink after work w/his secretary, etc. plus have his loyal wifey at home for him as well.

What he needs to understand is that we all must live in reality unfortunately + reality dictates that we cannot have our cake and eat it too all the time.

Sure, he is a grown man and can do what he wants...within reason, of course.

But as a married man, he must live a respectful lifestyle since he is now your husband and it is highly improper for him to be going to bars drinking w/his secretary and/or lying to you about it.

Both are pretty much crummy things to do to your wife whom you are expected to show the utmost respect to.

So if he wants to continue on his path by doing what he wants to do, w/whomever he chooses to do it w/, then by all means he can. We live in a free country and no one has the right to dictate to anyone else how to live one's life.

And that same rule applies to you as well. You do not have to put up w/his disrespectful behavior toward you as a husband + you can leave anytime you desire.[/quote]

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