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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. As I said it was H who suggested separation and my cross contry move. He would prefer the child to stay with him but I told hi this wasn't an option.[/quote]

he said it was ok for you to move. he wants his child here with him.  you aren't seeing the truth stating you in the face - you are not going to move to the other coast with the kid - and good luck finding any judge who will legally authorize you to do it.  get ready for a nasty fight - and just b/c your family is there and can help is not a reason a judge will side with you.  you'll be forced to make very economical choices and downsize your life.

sorry to  be harsh but better you snap into reality now than feel your getting blind-sided later.[/quote]

Well I cannot stop him filing for divorce, can I?
As of now he just talks about physical separation.
I try not to blame him, but I just don't have it in me- can't give him what he wants.
I tried to improve what he thought needed improvement- now it turns out he wants love. I don't have it in me. [/quote]

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