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[quote=Anonymous]OP you modeled better communication and he stepped up and joined in with better communication.  Sounds like if you want to continue you have to find a way of addressing the resentment about hurtful things he said and did.  Some people fight mean and say cruel things but they don't necessarily mean them in a sustained way.  It seems to make it work you need to find a way to get past that or work through it.  Most men wont' let their child go to another state.  Maybe DH feels responsible to make sure you are on a good footing and is encouraging it in this case?  Just be sure you don't make a plan to leave and then have him change his mind about your child.  In any case, if you feel done with him then separation makes sense.  If you feel there is mutual affection and a bond because you've been through a lot, and if he feels the same way, maybe you have some ground to stand on and can make it work, but probably with the help of a counselor.  Would he really rather separate than try with a counselor for the sake of your child?[/quote]

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