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Reply to "H wants us to separate due to loss of affection"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP - does your H know why you behave the way you do? If he does, and he is still unwilling to go to therapy with you, then it sounds like the marriage is a lost cause. I hear you about not wanting to divorce and all the hardships that come with it. But, life is too short. You both should find someone who makes you happy, if it's possible. I think sometimes it hurts the child more to see a loveless marriage than be a child of divorce. If you both can remain civil during and after the divorce, your DC may be fine. You want to model a healthy marriage for your DC. My parents have a really dysfunctional marriage, and at times as a child, I wished they had divorced. As others have asked, would your H let you move with your DC across country? If I were to divorce, I'd still want my kids to remain close to their dad (unless of course there was abuse), so I think I'd do what I could to remain not too far from the ex.[/quote]
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