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[quote=Anonymous]LOVERS  ---  Before our kids were born - we were in idealistic love. We saw each others without flaws. It was a  VERY GOOD relationship. Sex was romantic and very emotional - it was truly making love.

PARENTS --- When the first kid was born and for the next 5 years after that, we became parents first. We were good parents however the romantic relationship took a nosedive. I do not mean married sex which was still happening - I mean being in love with a person. There was caring and concern but we were the least in love.

PARTNERS --- Child number 2 happened and we were in a good marriage.  We were still not in the idealistic love of when we had first met. We were solid parents and husband and wife. We were aware of each others shortcomings and knew how to live with that and work efficiently. We were technically better at sex - but there was no fireworks as it was before we had kids.

SOULMATES - Youngest is 10 years old. We fell in love all over again. It is not the idealistic love of when we first met - but much deeper. It is truly being in love with a person inspite of all their flaws. The sex is beyond phenomenal - something that we never thought was possible even when we first met.  Sex is technically and emotionally better than before.  It is making love + 50 shades of gray - all rolled in one.  This phase is amazing because for once we are loved for just who we are. 
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