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[quote=Anonymous]OP I struggled with this too.  I kept it quiet and suffered inside for a long time.  Finally just started telling people (which made me feel a LOT better, btw!!!).  Initially I told my close friends and my parents.  We didn't want to tell the in-laws because we knew they would not understand.  However, right before we started IVF we finally told them - they were getting super naggy about kids to the point where I could no longer handle it.  Surprisingly, they were super shocked to hear it and it totally shut them up since they really didn't know what to say at that point.  We were also struggling with male factor, which I think helped because they took it more personally and therefore kept it quiet.

I am now super open about it and have found it to be liberating.  Not only that but I've been able to help so many others which has been fulfilling for me.  It took a few years to get to this point but I can definitely say it feels better than not talking about it.

It's a very personal decision OP, but maybe start small and see if it helps you.  You shouldn't have to suffer alone.  Hugs!!![/quote]

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