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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm going to assume that his job is easily transferable and you're a SAHM. Do you plan to reenter the workforce? Would it be easier for you to find a job here or in the south?[/quote]

OP here- I realize the more details I give the more obvious I could be to anyone reading it that knows me, but oh well.

He's in a tech field that allows him to be in lots of different places. I actually don't stay at home but I'm on a 70% work schedule after the baby, but also my 'industry' is everywhere in varying degrees in the USA as long as I am open to different missions or types of work etc (NGO management/ public management)

I am glad to hear that having tough conversations can pop up more when you go from being a childless couple with a lot more freedom to having kids and feeling more tied down and all that comes with the new sort of emotions and priorities of being parents.

My family is in New England and NY, his in New England (and his brother is actually down south for at least the next 3 years -residency-, but they don't talk that much, its not a draw for him to be closer to his brother- he's not even looking within driving distance to where he is in FL)

We will see what comes of it, I think we can find a compromise of course I just am not sure how to make that happen without one of us getting everything and the other nothing (kind of like you can't turn left and right at the same time, there isn't always a middle)[/quote]

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