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[quote=Anonymous]OP again. Just updating with some new information that confirmed my suspicion.

Indeed the person I noticed who was bristling randomly and generally acting like she was looking for opportunities to be offended is indeed a toxic person. I spoke at length with a mutual acquaintance to whom I decided to reveal my observations, and she was so relieved to find that she was not the only one. It turns out she was truly harassed by this woman, as they worked together on a project with their respective kids, and she was in receipt of constant nasty judgements about her parenting, her kids, pretty vile and over the top stuff. Definitely this person is highly imbalanced.

She must have sensed I would not be receptive to her way of doing things, so I only got the bristles and the inexplicable silences that felt weird. But I was onto her and cut the cord.

Anyway, my reason for posting all this is to let people know to trust their instincts and use past experiences to avoid a repeat. Ive only dealt with two of these kinds of people over the past 8 years since I had my daughter, and they are people I met ONLY because I have a kid and they did too. So these are not "chosen" relationships in the sense that I was used to.

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