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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You were both wrong, but to be fair, you can't frame the problem as entirely your wife's responsibility. Having taken a few partner-dance classes, I can tell when a man is a good "leader" and when he is pretty weak or incompetent. You should ask your teacher how you can be a better leader. One thing that I noticed that good leads do is have a firm hand on the back and is able to apply just the right amount of pressure to direct my body in the proper way. If you have floppy hands, poor posture, or are unsure, you need to work on better leading.[/quote]

I dance salsa and several other Latin dances and it's really, really hard for me to let someone take the lead who is a bad lead. I've been pretty badly hurt a couple of times because my partner was a crap lead and led me into a dangerous situation. I also learn dance moves very quickly and it's difficult not to "back lead" someone who's not doing it right. Maybe you two should keep at the lessons but find lessons where they rotate partners so that you can each get a feel for dancing with other people.

But seriously, you acted like a total big baby.[/quote]

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