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[quote=Anonymous]Op I was very happy pre marriage. Married DH for all the right reasons. But we never loved together and that was hard, so many of my gfs talked about this. Many of us wanted out bc we had never lived together and it was too much. Communication and understanding is important. I also became pregnant (surprise) in our first year. This was stressful for us both. We had never worked out loving together and 17months later were parents. Anyways, 8 yrs later with a newborn we are in a great place. Basically I'm saying marriage is hard work and requires woke from both ppl. We both had the same long term goals and were committed but did fight a lot along the way. We didn't have baby number two until we were solid again and enjoying our marriage. Money wasn't an issue for us. We were both doing very well. It was just having different expectations of what marriage was ans it's reality and the pregnancy surprise was too much too soon. Best of luck. Counselling is a great idea. [/quote]
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