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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Married to one. He only sees that I am the whole problem. So, no, counseling didn't help.[/quote] This exactly. We tried counseling and were "fired" by the therapist who explained "I have nothing to offer in a situation where one half of the couple assigns 100% of the blame to the other." He called me at work the next day to say that, informally, my husband is a narcissist, he predicts that our situation will get worse not better, and he strongly suggests that I get out. Of course he was right, but unfortunately at the time my twins were 9 mos old, my job was incredibly demanding, and I didn't have the emotional wherewithal to deal. It took me 9 mostly miserable years to divorce him. [/quote]
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