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[quote=Anonymous]Is there something sexy about dangerous men? I was unthreatening and had a hell of a time getting dates in high school and (to a lesser extent) in college. The dudes with tempers always seemed to have dates.

Then I hear about the domestic abuse issues. I know the women say they are afraid to leave, and maybe it's as simple as that. But they must have had reasons to start seeing these guys in the first place. The standard response is that the women didn't know the guys in question had rage issues. And again, maybe it's as simple as that - however, most of the ones with tempers seemed pretty easy to pick out. Possibly because it's a survival instinct in a kid who grew up skinny among bigger guys.

My sense has been that women find these guys sexy on some level. If they didn't know, it's because they were wilfully blind to the tempers and rage. And, sometimes, they don't leave when things get bad, but again, there seems to be some willful blindness for a variety of reasons.

And, no, regardless of the dynamics, the women who get hit absolutely don't deserve it. People who hit people should go to jail. Full stop. [/quote]

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