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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry, OP. This sounds painful and depressing. I echo what others say--barring major issues you did not mention, it sounds like your DH is placing the blame for the lack of compatibility or satisfaction on you--eg, you're the one trying to increase your drive/sexual effort (which seems far more than adequate at this point--does he expect more??), change your jobs (is your schedule more difficult than his), etc. Doesn't sound like a team at all.

Have you two been to counseling? I think that you should, even if its to discuss amicable co-parenting.

I also think you need to work on a couple tracks at a time. First, counseling if you haven't. Secondly, start to think about a trial separation plan i--push for that rather than filing immediately, because you/he may find that single parenting/single income brings a lot more stress/unhappiness than anticipated (on the other hand, after the inevitable wave of depression, you may eventually find that you are happier no longer being constantly seen as falling short of your husband's seemingly unrealistic expectations).Where will you live, what kind of custody, with your schedules, etc.

Finally, you need to quietly see a divorce lawyer before December just to get the lay of the land.

I'm very sorry. Hopefully you will ultimatley find a resolution that is happier than your current state, which sounds terribly depressing. [/quote]

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