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[quote=Anonymous]I think if you're [i]unattracted[/i] to him, then cut it off now.

If you're just sort of 'whatever' - like he's pleasant-looking, but not what you would pick out of a catalogue to be your boyfriend if you had the opportunity to do so, but the date went well, keep going out with him.

People get more or less attractive the more you get to know them. I'm sure I think all my female friends are prettier than they actually are (though I do think they are all very beautiful women). If you start to like him, you'll find it appealing that his eyes crinkle when he smiles, or twinkle when he's making a joke, or something. I've written about it here, but I've presently got significant feelings for someone who snuck up on me with his wit and personality, not because I ever looked at him and went "whoa."

That said, don't try to convince yourself that you do find him attractive if you don't. I'd say after 5 dates or so, if the idea of kissing/sleeping with him actually turns you off, you're probably not going to feel differently later.  [/quote]

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