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Reply to "Does your spouse have a best friend who is of the opposite sex?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I did before we got married. My best friend got married first and it definitely changed the vibe in our friendship. Once I was married too, we just tapered off. My husband didn't ask me to, but I just found it too distracting. A best friend is some one you can lean on emotionally. For that to be some one of the opposite sex, but not your spouse, means relying on some one else for support and company in life - too much of a gray area for me. We now just exchange general updates on how life is going a couple times a year and when we're both in the same town, we hang out with the whole family present. No one on one in depth talks, no BFFing bonding, etc. I know plenty of people out there can make the situation work, but it didn't work for me and I wouldn't love if DH was best friends with a woman either. [/quote]
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