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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Its ok you dont get, and its hard to explain in one post. But the bottom line is, these individuals stand out completley among the total people Ive interacted with.

Three individuals over 20 years have puzzled me, all turned out to have entrenched problems in all their relationships, but I didnt see that.

I was trying to remember the first "sign" somethign was "off" and it was looking for opportunities to be offended. Its a "you know it when you see it" kind of thing.

All people have minor triggers, the "well I never" but with these people it goes deeper.

Anyone who likes to avoid trouble and drama might try to figure out the common thread.

My close friends totally get this, and we discuss it. They have their own versions of the same thing: trying to figure out how that first narcissist slipped by their filter at work is a common one.

The signs seem small and trivial at first, but they build over time.

My close friends, like myself, do not easily offend and dont comment on how other people do things. Also, I probably need to avoid anxious people, but they are drawn to me because I make the comfortable.[/quote]

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