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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, it has to be an extremely high income or special situation.  My husbands ex was like you and expected my income to count even though she refused to provide her boyfriends income whom she left the marriage for.  Judge said no.  Took the older kids off child support, ordered her to pay more in travel costs for the youngest, and a lot more visitation.  They only used my income for tax purposes and given I put him in a higher tax bracket, it got slightly reduced for that.  You are not entitled to his wife income.  [/quote]

Are you in Virginia? Together they make close to 300K. I am single with just our child. 
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You are missing the point.  You are NOT entitled to the stepmother's income.  Your child is entitled to a portion of her father's income as child support.  It does not matter what state you are living in, it is your and the child's father's responsibility to provide for your child.  If you cannot afford to care for your child, talk to dad or give dad custody.  If you believe you are entitled to an increase based off of his income, then file.  Simple.  No judge is going to base it off of combined income.  If you want a joint income, get married.  [/quote]

+1000[/quote]

Look, leftover ladies. You married him. If you think he gets to increase his standard of living by leaving his child behind you are dumber than we thought. I already posted the guidance from california any other states? 
FYI for those of you just shacking - up that increase HHI as well. [/quote]

Hmmm... I make $150k more than my husband (he also has a crazy ex), and he definitely benefits from an increased standard of living.  His son does, too, by the great vacations we bring him along on, all the extracurriculars we pay for, the electronic and name brand clothes that matter so much to him now that he is in middle school. In fact, it is my income that is likely paying for all this great stuff we get to do and buy as a blended family! But his ex wife doesn't see a dime of my money.  Sorry sweetie.  [/quote]

Well, dear I wish your husband was my EX. My child has not only not recieved any of which you mention his father has refused to see him. [/quote]

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