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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"I have been sending her money for this and that every few months, each time saying this will be the last time." So stop lending her money. Even before the dog, [b]you mention you have been lending her money over and over.[/b] So, thus far it has worked for her to ask you for money and probably not repay you. So stop continuing to enable her to mooch off you, OP. [/quote] OP, perhaps you need to talk with a therapist about why you continue to give her money and engage with her. You're getting something out of this--Perhaps you need to feel needed? Maybe you enjoy the drama? Maybe you think you can be the one to change her. Whatever the reason is, figure it out and face it head on. Only then will you be able to set appropriate boundaries with her. There's only one person you can ever change: YOU. [/quote]
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