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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The way I found out? I had a gut feeling- he was definitely distancing himself emotionally and started i dont know how to describe it... Insulting my appearance and giving me disgusted looks...
I looked at credit card and saw he was going out to dinners and lunches that were definitely too expensive for 1. Then snooped in emails and texts. Still feel bad about that. When i confronted him he deleted everything . 
I was sooo emotional .. I should have waited to confront him until I had copies or something.. It didnt seem real[/quote]

Pp here with the sex with the cheating exbf.  Look, this is WAY worse than just cheating then.  He is gaslighting you.  He is acting like you are crazy when both you and he have seen the evidence and know he's cheating.  This is a level of cruelty and evil far beyond just infidelity.

I've changed my mind with this new information.  I think you need to call a lawyer tomorrow and start making plans to protect yourself.  Make sure you have passwords to all of the bank accounts.  Spend tonight after he is in bed or tomorrow morning getting paper and electronic copies of all of your statements.

If he is gas ighting you, he does not love you.  He is stringing you along hoping you'll question yourself, which will buy him more time.  (Which he may use to transfer assets and screw you even more.)

Call a lawyer tomorrow, op![/quote]

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