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[quote=Incognita][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Definitely don't dump him. His actions clearly show that he is invested in you. It's still so new, just give it a little time. Enjoy fooling around and if sex comes up let him know that you don't go that far unless you're in an exclusive relationship. I don't know how the online profile thing works but it sounds like he can be "active" without pursuing new connections. Just give it time - 4 weeks is nothing.[/quote]

Thanks for the perspective PP.

The other thing I find creepy is that IF he's still seeing other people and getting hot and heavy with me...that doesn't bode well for any other person either. I would be beyond pissed if I discovered while even causally dating my man was in bed with another woman. That would end it for me.

I should also say his friends are his coworkers. So I imagine it would be really awkward if he was bringing several women to after work events.[/quote]

The work events thing could go either way. Depending on the formality of the events it's not uncommon for coworkers to introduce different women. Most of my DH's have introduced me to at least 3 women in a period of a couple months. I don't think any stigma exists with that, so don't use that as a safety.

I'd say base it on the quiet of your time together, the emotional and time investment he gives you and start trusting him now. Don't keep checking the profile daily. If you want it to be serious, move towards that without sex, hopefully he is a good guy and the profile goes inactive or is deleted. You have your non-negotiable, no sex without exclusivity, give him some time to step up. Also question, are the 4 weeks included that online exchanges? If so definitely relax and give it more time! :) [/quote]

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