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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ha.  So many women wait until their 30s to get married.  Surely a 23, 24, 30 year old woman can make a valid choice about having sex before marriage.

I waited a veeeery long time, into my 20s.  I didn't think it was immoral or sinful to have sex before marriage.  I just knew what was right for me.

I'm an atheist.[/quote]

PS: My parents didn't think it was immoral or sinful, either.  Mum talked with me about birth control in my teens.  They allowed me to express how I felt about boys, relationships, all that.  Another sister also waited a very long time--oh, how chaste we were. :)  Third sister held out 'til age 15 or 16.  She was always the leader in her relationships, and still is, in some ways now that she's in her mid 30s.  Always very responsible, too.  Parents never worried about her being bullied or coerced.

I think the key here is that everyone was safe, made good choices, was respectful, expected to be respected, was informed, knew all about science, thoughtful and reflective, and all that.  Honestly.  [b]Self-awareness, other-awareness, and science are the holy trinity when it comes to sexual choices[/b].[/quote]

Those are YOUR values about sex. Not everyone shares them and that is actually okay. Others have other values that they see as important related to sexual choices. Your parents instilled in you their values about sex and you seem to have continued to share in their values. Ops daughter may do the same and continue to share the values her parents instill in her. [/quote]

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