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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, who has a 3rd wedding?!

2nd I can understand, but by round 3, you should tie the knot either with a justice of the peace, or Vegas. [/quote]

I am my DH's third wife.  First lasted one year and they were very young.  Second lasted ten years, no kids.   We have been together for 18 yrs and have two kids.

We had a medium size wedding with 80 guests.  It was my first and only wedding and I wanted a white dress and a party, so that is what we did.

At one point during wedding preparations, SIL hissed to DH that he "didn't deserve" a nice wedding.  She made a comment to my sister to the same effect at our wedding reception.  Since then I keep my distance from SIL - don't need that kind of bad energy/I'll will in my life.  Her loss.[/quote]

Wow.  It's 18 years later.  Have you ever talked to her about this?  Why do you think she was so bitchy at the time?  Was it just that she was "tired" of her brother getting married or something?
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I've never talked to her about it.  I think she is a jerk and lives a life of schaudenfreude.

RE "tired" of her brother getting married, if you can't muster a simple "congratulations!", then STFU.  And making that remark to my sister, who is my BFF and who she had just met a month or so earlier, is just breathtakingly bitchy.[/quote]

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