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[quote=FruminousBandersnatch][quote=Anonymous]I am the poster who called out the woman on the other thread for being a child abuser for having sex with her 13 mo in the bed.

First, I have no problem with people being naked in front of their children, etc.

However, why in the hell would ANYONE think this is appropriate behavior for parents.  I do not care if your child is a newborn or 10 years old, its completely inappropriate.

I actually think the other woman was bragging about it.  Like it was cool they did this.  Exposing a child to a sexual act whether you are their parents or not is child abuse and I am horrified that I even stooped to the level of having to type this.

All time low for DCUM on this one.

And to the OP- obviously you know there is something wrong with this because you started a thread about it.  Had I just been some "crazy lady" you would not think twice about this huh?

Anyone who can justify this is horrible.  I am no prude and my sex life is perfect but I have no need to risk any exposure of it to my kids.  [/quote]

[b]"I do not care if your child is a newborn or 10 years old, its completely inappropriate."[/b]

It must be lovely to live in such a black and white world. By your logic a movie that is rated PG-13 is ALWAYS inappropriate, regardless of the age of the child. The difference between having an infant sleeping next to you and having a 10-year old in the room is significant.

If the baby wakes up and sees mommy and daddy doing something under the covers in the dark, (a) the baby has no comprehension of what she's seeing, and (b) the baby has no real ability to form any memories about it. A 10-year old is completely different developmentally.

Obviously you're not going to have screaming, ride-em-cowgirl, kinda sex while a baby is sleeping, but having sex in a way that doesn't disturb the child is absolutely fine. The kid is sleeping and even if a 13-month old does wake up, you can stop what you're doing, comfort the baby until she goes back to sleep, and resume bonking, assuming the interruption hasn't killed the mood.

For someone who claims you're no prude, you sure come across as having a pretty repressed attitude, and using words like "Anyone who can justify this is horrible," tells me you've got some issues when it comes to sex. [/quote]

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