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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please tell me you know you can get HPV even if you don't have intercourse. You may have brought it into the marriage. [/quote]

I did not.  I had not had sexual contact of any kind prior to marriage.  I should have made that clear.

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None at all? I find that hard to believe.

Frankly your problem is you are feeling like a victim when he was clear with you that he wasn't a virgin. This is a choice you made but you are blaming him. HPV is extremely common and it sucks that you have gone through this-- but it isn't his fault. He shouldn't feel guilty. You need a lot of therapy by yourself so you can figure out if this is marriage you want to stay in because you are ruining it all on your own. [/quote]

You can believe what you want but I am a very conservative Catholic and no, I did not have sexual contact prior to marriage.  To be blunt, as another PP said, part of the reason was religious, part was to avoid STD's.  Yes, I am bitter I did not.

And sure, HPV may be fairly common, but most don't have the issues I am having.  This is life altering.  Possibly fatal.[/quote]

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