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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Children give unconditional love....but they take much more than they give. If you are looking to fill a void in your heart, seek therapy and fix yourself before having kids. I speak from experience.

And you need to realize that the resentment you feel is a sign that you need some work on yourself. Your BF doesn't even have shared custody and you are jealous of that bond?

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Meh, crappy advice.

This woman is 43 not 23.  The "void" can mostly definitely be at this time one of not having children but having experienced all other kinds of relationships.

And it's natural to feel some resentment and jealousy towards people who have something you really want. It happens to everyone whether it's about kids or money or a house. It's how you act on that resentment that makes the difference.

As a single mom by choice I would suggest to the OP that she pursue another relationship or have children on her own. You will always regret not having children.  You want them.  It would be different if you never had the desire and still didn't.

Also, given the very few times your boyfriend sees his kid, know that your ex isn't really parenting but more like tolerating his kid a few times a eyar.[/quote]

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