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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm the original poster - just to clarify, there won't be an oops baby.  I'm 43, and won't be conceiving naturally.  I froze my eggs at 38.   My boyfriend is 42.  His daughter lives out of state with her mother, and only visits boyfriend for one week at Spring Break, 6 weeks over summer, and one week at Christmas.  At 43, I realize my age is a huge factor in having a child with any man, so that is why I'm concerned with giving up on a man with whom I'm already in a relationship and who is otherwise very good to me. [/quote]

Which is more important to you--- a relationship with a man or a relationship with a child.  You know this already-- at 43, if you separate from this man and start over, you'll probably be at least 45-46 before you've found someone else, gotten pregnant, and borne a child.  It can be done, but as a 43 yr old mom of a 4 yr old, I can tell you I am tired at the end of the day.  My 26 yr old SIL can run all day with her her 2 yr old.

You froze your eggs.  Is being a single parent something you would consider?[/quote]

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