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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd be peeved if they just up and booked without talking to us. How do they have any idea that you'll even be in town? I'd start with that angle rather than the length of the trip. Next pre-planned trip, I'd say, "Oh my, you really should have checked with us. We already have plans to be in x location for 3 days in the middle of this visit, so this isn't going to work for us. Before you book next time I hope you'll discuss the plans with me first." Then you get them to come to you first and you can negotiate the length of their stay based on your preferences and other plans. That said, my ILs travel from CA to here, so for them to stay any less than 5 days is a bit of a waste given the cost....[/quote] +1[/quote]
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