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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you give your wife the the choice of divorce papers or an open marriage, you aren't giving her a choice at all. You're telling her you're leaving, and just asking her to decide how you do it, and accept the responsibility. That way, when she's miserable (either with an open marriage or being divorced), then it's not your fault. Because it was her choice, right?

That's a seriously weak move.

When you say "nothing works", I noticed that counseling wasn't in there with date nights and sex toys.

PP was right on that you've likely reduced much larger problems to an "I just don't get sex" issue. I have no doubt that you're not getting sex. I also have no doubt that there's more to the story.

The fact that you think serving your DW with divorce papers is the ethical thing to do, and wonder if you owe her an explanation, speaks volumes.

Get some counseling man, for yourself first, then the two of you. That, my friend, is the ethical thing to do. And if it doesn't work? Mazeltov and move on in life. But without that effort, don't kid yourself that you tried.

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