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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Try online dating -- I think you'll be fine if you are not looking for husband #2.  There are plenty of great guys out there that behave like gentleman and are smart and funny.  They won't necessarily be as well educated or as successful as you.  I also dumped a well-educated, successful man that was really an ass.  Although I haven't met anyone that I could see marrying, I am meeting plenty of great guys and having fun.  My kids are preteens and teens, so that makes it a little easier.  [/quote]

OP here. I don't want to put my picture up on an online dating website. I feel like no one is interested in me online since I have no picture. At the same time, I am only looking at profiles with pictures with no luck. I also am not the type to ask guys out on dates. It is like a circular reference. [/quote]

Maybe you're not ready. Not posting a pic doesn't make any sense and you know it. Men are visual (you know this too). You don't have any hobbies outside of your kids and you're not ready to pursue any new ones. Sounds like a lot of excuses.[/quote]

First off I think op sounds great and i would date her without needing to see a pic. What's the harm in having drinks or coffee with a nice, educated person? Even if there aren't sparks it can be a nice time and possibly worth doing again.

Second why would she want to put her photo on an online dating site? So she can wade through 1000 messages from superficial jackasses who don't even scan her profile? Talk about a waste of time. Online dating is a joke. Not that people can't be found there, but its not what she is looking for. And that's fine.

I would recommend becoming an active part of a community like this and getting to know some of the people. Trade pics with someone u find interesting and go from there. I don't see what her being immersed in her kids or not listing a bunch of hobbies has to do with anything. Find someone interesting meet face to face and see if u click. This impersonal world we live Is ruining our ability and desire to communicate with people. It's a shame.

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