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[quote=Anonymous]My mom is similar and all this advice is great. However I am still in the "why" stage. Why does she choose to act like this? It tears me up. I know she won't change but I wonder why she doesn't want to change. I can't imagine treating someone like this, yet I treat her poorly when we are arguing because she is mean and bitchy. Sometimes I think she has some disorder but then when it comes down to it I really think she is just mean. I try to think have empathy, she may have a disorder of some kind, but nothing fits other than her just choosing to be rude and mean. I can set boundaries and make good choices myself but I'm stuck on the why...why would she choose to be this kind of person. Doesn't she want a better relationship with me? A kind loving relationship?[/quote]
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