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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not toned, unfortunately. I've been like this for as long as I can remember.

I don't care about the man's looks and would happily date a fat man. And while I am a non-white woman (won't be more specific - need to maintain anonymity and DC is a small town), I have no race barrier and would happily date an AA man. [b]But yes, I am afraid I am an elitist about his educational background.[/b][/quote]

NP here.

Well, you have reduced the pool to such a small group (Ivy grad, good family, attracted to an obese person who can't flirt), that I think you may want to either pay for a matchmaker or accept that you will probably never marry (or even really date).[/quote]

Or consider a wealthy man who is considerably older and just wants company.[/quote]

They don't have to settle. There's scads of young beautiful women who would fit their bill. No older wealthy man wants an ugly chick. Not gonna happen. (Not saying fat = ugly but OP hasn't really made herself sound very attractive so I'm going to assume she isn't. There's "overweight but still pretty and dresses well" but OP just says she's fat, "unfortunately not toned" and accepts it. Gonna assume not a looker.)

OP you aren't going to marry a man in the narrow field you have chosen. Those men are looking for trophy wives. You can either lower your standards and widen your net now, or wait another 5-10 years at which point your available pools till won't be these men and most of the good ones you could have gotten will be snatched up. Your choice. [/quote]

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