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[quote=Anonymous]Look, OP, I have sympathy for your father's illness and the situation, but that is NOT an excuse to sacrifice your mental well-being. Your father presumably chose to marry your mother, you did not choose to be her daughter. If she complains to him and it upsets him, it's a natural consequence of him marrying someone who complains and/or has a personality disorder. I agree 100% that you need to set boundaries with her. Your dad is not your responsibility. YOU and YOUR CHILD are your primary responsibility. I'm obviously not saying you don't love your dad, but you are allowing your mother to manipulate you through him and it has to stop. If she hastens his death, there's no one to blame but her. You can't control another person, so stop kowtowing to her craziness and set those boundaries.[/quote]
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