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[quote=Anonymous]In my last marriage, I went through periods like this. There are a lot of legitimate reasons on that list, but the list itself paints a picture of a sad relationship where two people are not particularly connected for whatever reason. That was certainly my problem before - I wasn't feeling particularly sexual and we were not connecting on any other levels either. Part of it was legitimate exhaustion or physical unattractiveness - going to the gym and feeling sweaty and gross, being tired after a long day, being full and drunk, etc. But the other issue was that I simply did not prioritize an intimate relationship with my husband over the other things. At the end of the day, I wanted to read or watch TV or get some extra sleep, and I cared more about those things than I did about being sexy with my husband. As time went on, I noticed this pattern existing in other areas of life too. He stopped being the first person I shared news (good or bad) with. I stopped thinking of little nice things to do for him. I stopped missing him when he traveled for work.

We divorced.

That said, I have no idea where you guys are getting the cheating accusations or the suggestion that she doesn't REALLY have to travel for work. [/quote]

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