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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is 8:59 again. I would also add that you probably learned a valuable lesson here -- you can't go to your ex's family to complain about him. They are going to have his back ultimately. Lean on your friends instead for support. [/quote]

It was the final attempt before trying to get it dealt with by the court to get through to him. It wasn't for support. [/quote]

If you are at the point that you are feeling the need to take legal action, it sounds like the nature of the relationship is set to change no matter what. It also sounds like maybe this shift in the relationship is something that has been brewing in the background for a while, with everyone kind of ignoring it in the hopes of keeping a happy face on everything.

If you are having a co-parenting issue (your ex letting his rage out in your daughter's presence) that's something that is probably best resolved by the two of you first trying counseling and then legal action only as a last resort. Ultimately, even if the ex MIL was "on your side" it's probably unrealistic/inappropriate to expect her to be able to influence the situation.

Sorry you are having to deal with this, OP.[/quote]

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