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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like a lot is going on beneath the surface here. You're not entirely sure you understand your sil's motives for saying what she did, and she seems surprised you're resistant to reconciling. Was what she said really hurtful, then, and is she disconnected from the harmful effect of her words (or trying to salvage her family unit/relationship with her brother by projecting blame onto you)? Or are you off base and missing some important and helpful perspectives? The answer to that question isn't at all clear. I think 8:07 and 8:32's recommendation for a time out 8:07 makes sense. Consult a therapist to help you think this through. Good luck. [/quote]
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