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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's incredible, but true. Sadly, this is where I find myself after 15+ years of marriage. There are kids involved and I still love him, so I don't want a divorce. He says that if he enjoys sleeping with women other than me, why should that be morally condemnable? We've had a normal, average marriage so far, at least from my point of view. I told him that I need trust and emotional intimacy, and I can't have that if I know or even if I just suspect that he is sleeping with other women. This didn't seem to register, though. I don't know what to do. [/quote]

He is already fucking around. [b]Are you staying or going?
That is the only choice left[/b].[/quote]

OP, it's as simple as this. It really is. And know that if you do stay, which you have every right to do, just know that you forfeit the right to complain, vent or feel sad about it. If you stay, you have to own it and make peace with it. You don't get to stay and privately pine for him to change.

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OP here. Why couldn't I expect him to change, with family therapy, psychotherapy, etc? People are always quick to suggest divorce, but I hope it is also possible to work things out.[/quote]

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