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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My guess is that he feels like he can do whatever he wants, including having you take care of his kids, his home and continue to sleep with you AND others. What a perfect life for him. And when you wake up from this fog and realize it's not what you signed up for and take control of the divorce, [b]he'll be left holding his dick in his hand because he just won't be that attractive anymore [/b]when he's living on his own and spending half his week with the kids and paying child support. [/quote]

OP here. He considers himself very attractive to women (not necessarily physically, but financially) and at work he is surrounded by women who agree. That would not change after a divorce. His professional situation has improved dramatically in the past few years, and this may have brought about the change in his entitlement attitude.[/quote]

Yeah, but part of his attractiveness now is that he's got all his shit together. He has all of his needs and wants taken care of (yeah, he's sleeping with others on the side, and you probably already know that).  When you divorce, he'll be dealing with his kids who are pissed at him and managing child care on his own. When the kids are sick at school, he won't just be able to call you. The demands on him will change, and they will not make him sexier.

What more important is YOU! You can't be that desperate that you would put up with this from him. Let him go, but not without him taking responsibility for everything he created. There is something so much better for you out there then a supposed partner that would treat you with such disrespect. [/quote]

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