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[quote=Anonymous]I feel kind of bad for your husband, OP. I would hate to be with someone who was settling for me while fantasizing to that degree about feelings for an ex. (I have actually been with someone who did that. It was demoralizing, because their discontent came through, and nothing about me was every quite enough.)

Seems you owe it to your husband to make a clear choice in your heart. Be happy and love the one you're with, or get out now and pursue the fantasy.

I have someone I've been infatuated with for probably 30 years, but I know clearly that it's just infatuation and a fantasy of the actual person, and I get on with my real life. These people will always exist for some of us.

The secret to being happy is to love, appreciate, and be content with what/who you have, and look inside yourself to understand what is missing. That other fantasy person may just represent something in yourself that you miss, and you need to take positive actions in your life to make your real, current life more fulfilling and interesting.[/quote]

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