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[quote=Anonymous]I think you're kind of missing the point if you think about what a burden it is for you to attend the wedding under the circumstances that it's being held. The couple wants the wedding they want - whether it's a big, open free for all with all the cousins and their children + all your high school friends you're still in touch with or a small, intimate wedding. They've planned what they wanted and they realize that impacts who can and can not attend. If having absolutely every cousin there were important to them, they would have planned a wedding that accommodated that. I have not met a single engaged person who says "I wish I'd gotten more 'yes' RSVPs." People are usually hoping that a good portion of those invited won't be able to make it. Most people don't want hundreds at their wedding. So if it's inconvenient for you to attend, don't feel guilty about declining and don't feel put on by having received the invitation. It's fine to decline - the couple expects, and may even by hoping, for quite a few no's. [/quote]
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