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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe its just me, but I cannot feel close to someone unless we talk and have some decent conversations with each other. Just talk about anything. Granted, my husband is a shitty communicator. He doesn't initiate conversation, he is not good at back and forth. I will ask him question, he'll give me an answer, but then he doesn't think to maybe ask me my opinion or experience in the same thing. It sucks. Fucking crickets -a lot.

I've had relationships in the past where we could talk for hours. I really should have found someone like that to marry. I realize now how important that is. But whatever. The grass is always greener.  I chose someone else and here I am. Anyway, when we are able to talk about anything i feel much more connected to him. I would imagine that if you could find things to talk about - at least its a shared experience. Try doing something fun together. I don't know where you are on vacation, but maybe something like golf, snorkeling, bowling, horseback riding. Something you wouldn't normally do at home. Do NOT spend all vacation looking at your respective iphones. Put the phone down and enjoy yourselves. And yes, alcohol helps - a lot.
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