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[quote=Anonymous]I can relate, OP. You're in a delicate situation since you're new to the company. I'd probably start documenting any questionable interactions in case you get this sort of feedback again. You'd be able to say, "You know, Bob, I took your initial feedback very seriously and have been really attentive to my interactions. I've started making notes in the moment so that I can review them and look for patterns...." Presumably, your notes will show that you behaved appropriately, make clear that you are attentive to your professional demeanor, and make him think twice before offering one-sided critique in the future. Best case, it makes you look serious and professional and thoughtful about feedback. Worst case, this is the first in a series of incidents that reveal a pattern of sexism, and you've created a paper trail. Good luck![/quote]
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