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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Having been in abusive relationships, I guess it bothers me to see everyone pile on with these threads. [b]I think once people are routinely mistreated, they become targets of others somehow.[/b] Whatever the OP is doing wrong, he doesn't deserve to be kicked while he's down. I would feel sorry for myself and post for sympathy is I was in a marriage like the one OP describes too. Sounds rough for everyone.[/quote] This. I think being treated like this is the norm for OP and he subconsciously elicits it on purpose because it's the quickest and surest way to garner the attention that he's not getting at home. There's a subtext that people pick up on and respond in kind. My interpretation filtered through my own experiences. OP, if you want their behavior to change, you will have to change.[/quote]
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