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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. All very helpful. A few responses - why doesn't he cut back instead of me (on hours at work). He makes 5 times my salary. we do have different sleep needs. He's ok on 6-7 hours a night, I am definitely not. we do have a lot of help - a full-time (not live-in) nanny who keeps things pretty neat, an every other week housekeeper. I'm not exhausted from doing laundry or scrubbing toilets. I'm exhausted because my job is incredibly high-level and high-pressure, and I also run the household as do 90% of all wives (organizing and keeping track of things). We split child care 50/50 during certain times of the year but at others it's 90% me -- see note above on his salary and how it compares to mine.[/quote]
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