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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, ignore all of those comments who tell you your DH is being selfish for wanting more sex/intimacy.  It is irrelevant whether 3 times per week is more or less than average.  He isn't happy and your marriage is taking a hit.

[b]My best suggestion is to cut down on the number of times per week you are having intercourse and make one of those times for an enthusiastic BJ.  Do it out of a sense of love to him, not obligation.[/b]  It will be quicker than sex and having less intercourse will hopefully leave you more charged up for the times it happens which will make the quality of those sessions better.

If you have extra money from your job, hire a sitter, housekeeper, etc.  Or cut back to one job.  If you have money, let money solve the easily solveable problems.

Good luck![/quote]

I completely agree and I bet my DH would say the exact same thing.  We have sex about once a week, but it is quite the production, worthy of the big screen.  Always the next day he mentions how hard he gets just thinking of the night before. Sometimes I even let him bring out the video camera.

I can tell you, he would be so miserable if he got 3xs a week pity sex. I think he get off getting me off.  Seeing my reaction is 80% of it for him....I sometimes have to tone it down, less we end prematurely....I can feel his excitement as mine starts to rise.[/quote]

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