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[quote=Anonymous]He asked, I think you should try to honestly and compassionately say that women are looking for a reliable, steady partner and it's can be intimidating to marry a man who's winging it when it comes to his career and personal finances, even if he is otherwise such a wonderful guy. Many women of this generation are in a position to support themselves, so it's not that he needs to be able to be the sole provider, but it's a bit overwhelming to meet a guy and realize he's likely to be your dependent at some time in the immediate future (between jobs) and most certainly will be in retirement. Especially at 40, he's probably meeting and dating women in their 30s & 40s who understand the full implications of this sort of financial set up - it's scary honestly, and with divorce rates what they are, he could end up walking away with half of his wife-to-be's assets without having brought much in terms of his own assets. I'd be cautious. [/quote]
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