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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People make mistakes, OP. She cheated on her husband, not on you. She obviously really trusts you and values your friendship or she wouldn't have told you about the affair. It sounds like she's having a midlife crisis. Be supportive. [/quote]

reverse the genders - would you say the same thing about a cheating husband?  be supportive or dump the bastard?[/quote]

PP here-good point. However, if it was his first affair I wouldn't necessarily tell her to dump the bastard. I would listen and support whatever my friend decided to do. I would also encourage counseling (in both situations). I really feel like as a friend it's not my business to judge/get involved with what happens in friends' marriages. Of course we all have opinions but I really would try to be as non-judgmental as possible as long as it wasn't something that was effecting me directly (like if my friend was having an affair with my husband-obviously that's a completely different situation). I really try not to judge because I've made my share of mistakes (not infidelity but an abortion that I have significant regret over). [/quote]

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