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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It depends on why they broke up. If they were just good people who were wrong for each other, then keep the relationship and be kind. Your brother will get used to it once he realizes that you and the ex don't talk about the relationship (don't talk about it). If they broke up because the ex did something truly horrible, then blood is thicker than water. I am assuming the former: She is ill and reached out. Be kind.[/quote] OK, I read more carefully. OP: your brother, who you are not close to, doesn't want you to be friends with her because he did something kinda yucky and doesn't want to be reminded of it. This is about him and his comfort. It is not about loyalty or anything like that. Be kind as you would be to other people you know. Don't abandon her in her time of need just because your brother (with whom you are not close, I remind you) acted like a schmuck. [/quote]
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