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[quote=Anonymous]OP, is your DH still contacting MIL once a day? And she's ignoring it? She must be loving this. This says to her that she's needed, and that her tantrum is working. She may be getting more attention from DH this way than she was when they were speaking. MIL wants to cause division. She would love it if DH told her that he's cut off FIL. No wonder the divorce was so nasty. I don't know what FIL is like, but I can imagine why he and DH's relationship is strained. MIL is toxic, and you need to find a way to lovingly show DH this truth. If he won't go to therapy, does he have friends you can suggest talk to him about this? Say something like "DH is having a hard time because MIL is shunning him for a little mistake. Take it easy on him if he's in a bad mood." If he has any good friends, they will ask him about this and hopefully give a good perspective.[/quote]
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