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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP- Thanks for reality check. Yes, I got to make this easier for DS and all of us, not just drop him off. For the record, I've been to ILs house many times before (pre-baby) and they are lovely people whom I trust. That to me was never the issue. Do they have a strong enough bond to have a sleepover without me- despite the fact they have visited us many times? I am unsure and would feel more comfortable going there for a night with him. But DH can't go with me because of other relationship strain. this is what really hurts. [b]I risk hurting my relationship with my husband by standing up for what I think is right. but so be it.[/b] [/quote]

Dude, it's his family!  Do you really hear yourself?  Say your piece to your DH, once, but then drop it.  You can't fight this fight for him, and you can't magically make things right for him either just because you want a functional extended family.

If you push, you may come to find out personally why DH has never tried to heal the breach in the relationship.  For crying out loud, don't go stay with his parents at a house where he's not welcome. Let it go.  Focus on your marriage.  Take care of your DH. [/quote]

Eh I think the husband is being a bit unreasonable here- wants his folks to watch his son, but won't tolerate a night of potential discomfort to get him settled in? Wants to have his cake and eat it too.[/quote]

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