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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's fine to meet with an old friend even an old girlfriend.  Your ex's wanting to meet sounds innocent.  Perhaps the state of your marriage is making you read more into the request to meet than there is.  It sounds like you would want there to be the possibility of something with someone.  Remember you still are married, even if it's a sexless marriage.

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Not fine to meet with exGF if you feel the need to hide the fact.[/quote]

I don't think the OP needs to hide it meeting with her.  I also don't think his ex wants sex; the [b]OP[/b] wants sex and is projecting these desires on just what is probably a simple get together.[/quote]
OP here. Perhaps some truth to this but I am not thinking about sex. Ironically as I haven't been in a sexual relationship in awhile, sex has become less important. What is probably more of the truth is that I am quilty of looking for emotional support and intimacy. Not sure it is a simple get together - was surprised she suggested it and in the past when we have skirted the idea of meeting when she is back on this coast she has come out and said its probably not a good idea because of our spouses. Yes, I am playing with fire. But I really do not want to be slinking around. I want to be open about it.[/quote]

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